What Your Man Is Really Thinking
Posted on 30 July 2008 by Sharifa
Ladies, I don’t claim to be a mind reader, but I think that it’s pretty easy to read your man. I can tell when my BF is lying, to spare my feelings, or when he’s trying to down play his emotions. The great thing about the male species is that they generally aren’t that bright. I’m sorry but it’s true. I don’t care how good of a liar, or how big of a player, a guy thinks he is, he isn’t really pulling the wool over anyone’s eyes. Some women just choose to live in denial, rather than face the truth. So forget whatever it is you think you know and let the master tell you what your man is really thinking.
Women’s Mags Are Garbage
While your guy has no problem with you reading Glamour, for the style tips and self empowering articles, he thinks that they have completely missed the mark on the sex advice. My guy laughs hysterically upon reading the “How To Please Your Man” tips that these mags love to dish out. He says, and I quote, “why the hell would I enjoy that?!” or even better, “where do they come up with this stuff?” So ladies, take heed. No matter how awesome a night Marie Claire promises if you “use this one technique,” don’t do it. That writhing your guy is doing; it’s not from pleasure, it’s from pain.
He REALLY Wants To Marry You
Before you start jumping up and down for joy, finish reading the paragraph. Yes, your guy wants to marry you, IF he feels that you have good “wife potential” qualities.” Most women seem to feel that guys have this natural aversion to marriage. Turns out, that’s not true. He’s not afraid to commit, he’s just afraid to commit to you! Stop feeding him McDonald’s after a long day at work. He wants a relationship that mirrors that of his parents, assuming they had a “normal” happy marriage.” He wants you to splurge on lingerie for him, and cook him a great meal when he gets home from work and not play the “but I’m just a dumb girl” card. My BF tells me I’m the sexiest girl he’s ever dated, and it’s not just because of my gynormous chest. I can more than handle myself in the kitchen, I have a great sense of humor, I don’t bite my tongue, I have drive and focus, am comfortable in my own skin, and don’t smother him. Trying to get your guy to marry you by not being yourself will just land you two in divorce court later.
The Media Makes All Men Look Bad
Think about it; how are most men portrayed on TV? As selfish, immature asses who never want to grow up. Too bad that’s not what your guy really thinks of himself or the majority men, in general. It seems as though one bitter woman took her crappy BF, molded his personality, and then marketed that to the masses as what every man is. What’s wrong with that portrayal? Well, it’s just as damaging as women who pretend to be stupid because they think it makes them more appealing. The fact is, guys cry, and not just when they’re hit in the nads, they also want to get married around the age of 30 and have kids by the time they turn 35. No man really aspires to be Hugh Heffner, or chase tail till he’s 40, or father a bunch of illegitimate babies, or die of AIDS from all the “awesome ” one night stands he’s participate in night after night, or end up on dialysis, because he’s ruined his liver from heavy drinking. He just wants a regular comfortable life with someone he loves, just like you do.
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